Don't touch the nails!
This past weekend, we decided it was once again time to clip the boy's toenails. One might not think this would be such an ordeal, but one would be wrong. It's quite possible that he hates getting his nails clipped more than he hates it when we wipe his nose. His reaction is akin to how I imagine I'd react if someone 4 times my size pinned me down and threatened to cut off my limbs.
I should clarify, at no point did we threaten to cut off his limbs. In fact, we couldn't be any nicer about it. He sat in his mom's lap with a toy, and she quickly began to get to work. I think she got one nail clipped before the squirming and screaming started, and it only got worse from there. At her request, I stepped in to attempt to distract the boy. It started off nice, as I held him and tried to talk and sing to him.
After that didn't work, I had to use my size advantage. I held his two arms with my hands, and trapped his free leg between my knees. To passers-by, it probably would have appeared as though we were performing some 18th century surgery, back when they used whiskey as anesthesia. Not that we gave the boy whiskey, though now that I mention it, I bet it would have helped. Frankly, we would have been a little bit more shocked than them to see someone passing by our bathroom, and we probably would have stopped to ask them what they're doing in our house.
Anyway, a few minutes later, the wife finished his toes, and I could release my vise-like grip on his limbs. We hugged him and tried to explain that we understand he doesn't like getting his nails clipped, but that it has to be done.
He wasn't really paying attention though, as he was too busy picking up the baby nail clippers and pretending to clip his own toenails. Apparently, it's OK when done on his terms.



Comments
Sarah said:
I'm no expert or anything, but have you thought of doing it while he's sleeping?
I said:
We have, but unfortunately, he's not the heaviest sleeper (particularly during the day).
mep said:
Ha, we have to sit on our puppies to clip their tonails and even then it's kind of difficult. But I've never seen them play with the clippers afterwards . . . .
Onj said:
Have you given any thought to just letting his nails grow and having him attain the world record for longest finger and toe nails? Now is as good a time as any to start. Maybe he could have the title wrapped up at an early age and then he could live off of that fame for the rest of his life. I’m sure Nike would sign him and create a special signature shoe for him. With Nike behind him and you’re status as a Tiger Woods look alike, I don’t see why they wouldn’t supply you with all the latest in Nike Golf equipment. I’m just thinking out loud here…
Radioactive Growth said:
Not to worry, he'll outgrow the resistance. High school at the absolute latest.
Cate said:
Next time just bust out the whiskey. I've heard it works wonders.
cadiz12 said:
maybe give him something he's usually not allowed to play with? maybe the intrigue itself will be enough of a distraction.
'ka said:
i think i still go with the whiskey :D
jasmine said:
maybe you should all have toenail clipping parties. the three of you sitting there clipping your toe nails. he'll want to do it once he sees you do it. maybe.
i hate kids. what the hell do i know?
demosthenes said:
I've heard about this kind of thing on television. Kids that have bad experiences tend to develop freakish obsessions with the process and recreate the situation on animals or younger siblings. My dog makes a sound as though she's been hit by a truck when we (try to) cut her nails... I'm just saying, if Jam gives the boy's rebellion era until High School, don't get him a puppy until then.
Katie said:
Choose something stronger than whiskey, this is a severe situation. Get Absinthe.
I said:
We have tried letting him watch TV (which we don't normally do) while we clip the nails, it's usually a good enough distraction for about one nail.
Glo said:
Glo-commenting down until further notice.
Becky said:
i got so sick of hearing my dog scream like she was being gutted with a chainsaw everytime i pulled out the clippers that i just washed my hands of the whole thing and starting sending her to the groomer.
maybe you could do that with the boy?
Viking054 said:
What if you do just one nail each day? Sounds like the first one was no problem...
cadiz12 said:
maybe jas is onto something there. esp. if you act as though he isn't allowed to do it, he'll come over and stick his foot out at you as you're clipping your own more than ever.
btw i think that whole jas-hates-kids thing is a crock.